I have been two times lucky. My mom and my wife are two great people in my life. My mom was the inspiration and the strength that propelled me through gruelling preparations and trials of IITs. My wife, M, has gracefully taken place of my mom (just because she is with me all the time).
M's attitude is very unconventional and different from her peers. Otherwise who would let her husband leave a good job and dabble in uncertainities and that too without questionning the intent even once. The poise, the calm and the careless disposition that prevails in her during such trails rattles me. I am, for one, unsettle in such situations fast. Recently, when i was without a job or furture prospects, I was so perturbed that i could not sleep properly. Not so with M.
M's dedication to things important is total. She is quiet and relentless in her persuit to raise our son. She appears a bit like a monk deep in her meditation complete and in joy. It inspires me.
M is deep and pragmatic. It is hard for someone to give crap to M. She will not impose her belief on others but will not accept bullshit. This passive acceptance of good and rejection of bad helps her not to offend others. It is also a great strength as it helps her set things stright fast.
M is a social animal. She makes friends fast and develops deep relations. It is evident in the fact that all my university friends are closer to her than they are to me.
M, however, does not know her strengths well. Maybe because all of it comes so naturally to her. It is a bit like one does not know one's swimming abilities until one is in water. Being close to M for many years in variety of situations - this is my personal assessment of M. This is also a present to M for her 33rd B'day.
Happy B'Day M.
You are awesome!!
M's attitude is very unconventional and different from her peers. Otherwise who would let her husband leave a good job and dabble in uncertainities and that too without questionning the intent even once. The poise, the calm and the careless disposition that prevails in her during such trails rattles me. I am, for one, unsettle in such situations fast. Recently, when i was without a job or furture prospects, I was so perturbed that i could not sleep properly. Not so with M.
M's dedication to things important is total. She is quiet and relentless in her persuit to raise our son. She appears a bit like a monk deep in her meditation complete and in joy. It inspires me.
M is deep and pragmatic. It is hard for someone to give crap to M. She will not impose her belief on others but will not accept bullshit. This passive acceptance of good and rejection of bad helps her not to offend others. It is also a great strength as it helps her set things stright fast.
M is a social animal. She makes friends fast and develops deep relations. It is evident in the fact that all my university friends are closer to her than they are to me.
M, however, does not know her strengths well. Maybe because all of it comes so naturally to her. It is a bit like one does not know one's swimming abilities until one is in water. Being close to M for many years in variety of situations - this is my personal assessment of M. This is also a present to M for her 33rd B'day.
Happy B'Day M.
You are awesome!!
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